Showing posts with label jake. Show all posts
Showing posts with label jake. Show all posts

Monday, July 9, 2012

All roads that lead to wherever we are going.

It seems like since the day Jake and I started dating, we have been trying to get out of the continental US. 

I remember sitting together in his grubby college apartment and making a list of all the countries we wanted to explore together. 
The list was long. 

Somewhere between writing that list, and well, up until two weeks ago, life hit us at a fairly high speed. 

Marriage, death of a parent,  new careers, starting graduate school, pregnancy,, parenthood all with in the first 3 years of being together; and through it all I never lost that piece of paper. Every now and then I'd pull that paper out of our old dusty memory box of pictures, concert tickets, love notes and dream of all 65 countries we once thought we'd so easily journey to.

 Through the whirlwind of life's changes I never lost hope in us either.  

It's so easy to do  when your relationship is focused on a situation rather than relation.

I knew one day we'd trek together.






I have so many stories to share, friends.

 It's going to take me a while to process our experiences so please stick around, there is much more to come



Monday, August 22, 2011

The Many Shades of Jake's Facial Hair.

Paul Bunion meets Rabbi Bergen.

Wyatt Earp meets, Hells Angels meets, some yokel in Bakersfield.

Frenchmen, meets Stalin, meets European fencing master. 


Which is your favorite look? 

(My vote is #1)

Monday, July 11, 2011

zen kiting.

 That feeling you get when you let yourself float belly up in the ocean,
subjecting yourself to the waves and rhythm of the tide.

Peddling so hard on your bike you psychically can't make the bike go any faster.
Then standing up on the peddles, locking your knees and allowing the momentum to carry you as far as the bike will take you.

Looking out of the window of a plane, realizing you smaller than you really are, and simultaneously part of something bigger that you don't always understand.





I get those same flutters in my heart
When I fly a kite.
Or when I stand



On the edge of the world.




Hope everyone had a great weekend. 
We spent Saturday in Cayucos with some friends, beating the valley heat.
I'm happy to announce that Kim (comment #4, the number picked randomly by Jake)
is the "grad prize" winner of the Armenian Cucumber seeds :)

I'll be emailing you soon Kim, congrats!
I'm sure they will do great in that warm LA weather!

Monday, June 20, 2011

Road's End

 Saturday, we went on a mini hike with our dearest friends Tim, Nikki & Sophia.  I thought I'd have Tim narrate the whole adventure, seeing as though, most recounts done by Tim nearly bring me to tears (of laughter people, no sad stories told from his mouth)
Enjoy!

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This is a lot of pressure. See, yesterday Kat called to tell me 3 things:
1) Tim, I will be sharing the pictures from our wonderful Saturday hike with you via dropbox this very day.
2) Tim, would you mind guest blogging and writing the words to accompany the pictures from our wonderful Saturday hike?
3) Tim, the sermon today at the little Mennonite church was really good and Jake will tell you more (he didn't).


This is quite the honor, I'd say.

Several weeks ago we started scheming up an out-of-town trip with some of our favorite companions; we wanted to camp on the beach for a couple of days. We have our favorite spots along the central coast, but we wanted to visit Big Sur, which we've barely explored. Apparently, part of the highway fell in the ocean, though, so it's pretty hard to get there. Side note: does it bother anyone that over 100 feet of asphalt fell into the Pacific ocean?

After more plans (we always have plans and dreams, don't we?), we downgraded for the sake of Little Ones. Or, at least for the sake of our own nerves, which I sometimes like to call my Little Ones. So, a day hike at Road's End it was. Road's End is the very end of highway 180. We wound all the way through Sequoia National Park and into Kings National Park just past Cedar Grove. It's no joke, folks, no joke. Bear country, and all that.

As the observant reader can see, here we are on the road, so we didn't quite make it to the end of the road (fear not, the road was not closed and if it had been, my fellow hikers would've tired of my endless rendition of "The Road's Closed" in my best Canadian accent). We stopped short by a couple of minutes to hike to Sheep's Creek Cascade, a part of Don Cecil trail.  All said, we went about 4 miles. Jacob and I, as you can see, manned the baby backpacks with great vigor.


Halfway up the trail, we encountered the burnt woods. Lightning, or some force of man, torched the ground and a few trees. For being so destructive, it was really quite beautiful.

This was the only time Violet didn't enjoy being in the backpack. In the past: mixed reviews. On this day she wanted as much backpack as any of us could handle. On the way up the trail she pointed out objects she knows, only to have Jacob repeat their names back to her in German. She played us merry little tunes on her harmonica on the way down the trail. She thinks I'm hilarious when I trip (too much time with aunt Nikki). I love her like my own. Hope that's okay, Jake and Kat. 
As I said, burnt and beautiful.


Well, hello there, ladies.
Family photo: 4 smiles, 5 pairs of eyes on the camera, 1 Tim's upper-inner (just trying to keep up with Papa Jack's upper-inner from the 80's in the previous post; it's a Dad thing).
To make up for my upper-inners sinfullly abrasive presence, I read Rilke at the top of the hike. The water drowned out most of it, but that's just as well, really. Poets are chasing the waters' timbre anyway.
"When you were children you had planted trees.
They've grown too huge for you to hold.
Yet wait,
for there are breezes... for there are spaces...."
Rainer Maria Rilke "O You Delicate Ones"

After the hike, we ate and le the girls do some stretching of their little legs (fate would have it that I measured Sophia's inseam last night: 8 inches. It's safe to assume that Violet's inseams take after her dad's and clock in somewhere north of 10 inches, for the time being). We packed up to leave, Jacob and I each requested one more stop. His was Grizzly Falls. The heavy snowfall this year has left the run-off in our neck of the woods impressive. From deep in the Monarch Wilderness, snow melts and flows from peaks over 11,000 feet high, running through back country and over each crevice, once dry, to fall some 75 feet in an awesome display of mist and power. Feeling small is what I need some days.

Violet was unsure of this new twist in the trip. She was the only one with her wits about her, really: "You guys! That's an absurd amount of water spilling over great heights with such force it could do us great bodily harm!" I imagined her yelling. The rest of us felt our primal unconscious bubble up into our awareness and run rampant across our faces as we crept closer and closer, with no care for our safety or dryness. Kathleen, she of The Many Shades fame, one-up'd us all and defiantly stood up to the spray, thumbs-up and all. I think we can all agree, she's pretty great. Jacob snapped the pictures, while Nikki and I each held Little Ones.

The next stop was to scope the canyon views, terribly majestic. Looking across to the burnt orange cliffs, lined with shades of glacial erosion, was like those stupid optical illusions so popular in the 90's. You know, the ones that demand optical yoga, focusing and unfocusing, in order to see some cheesy and simple image somehow spring up from chaotic lines. The towering canyonside was like that, but not as stupid. It made me dizzy, but I was comforted by the fact that there was no secret, hidden image. All that was, was.




I can still hear the water if I close my eyes, smell the fragrant pines. I still feel tiny from staring at giant peaks and falls.
Sacred moments where we all become Little Ones.

Sunday, June 19, 2011

The Day of Dad.

Thank you Dad for teaching me to do justice, to love kindness, and to walk humbly in every capacity of life.
Thank you for loving Jake and I even when we act like crying little babies (both then and now)

 Thank you Pop for raising such a great son. You taught him to work honestly, love wholly, and think outside of the box.

Thank you Jake for being my reason during those nights I went with no sleep. The days I thought I wasn't equipped to be a good Mom you didn't let me give up. You brought Violet to me for 3am feedings when you had to leave for work at 6am.  You encourage me to pursue my dreams outside of the home, and never let me lose sight of them. You love our daughter endlessly, thank you, thank, you thank you.







Happy Father's Day.

Saturday, September 11, 2010

Yosemite

Yesterday (Friday) Jake and I were able to sneak away for another little day hike. This time Yosemite National Forest, which practically feels like Fresno's back yard. I forget how close we are to such a beautiful place.

Jake and I have been trying to plan this for weeks, he even took the day off which doesn't happen too often. We are SO lucky that our friend Sara Jo graciously offered to babysit Violet for the day (and may I add she has a 6 week old). I know she understands, from one parent to the next how important/exciting/monumental a trip like this can be for young parents.

Our day started around 9:30am, in our little black Jetta "Gretta", just the two of us, some NPR, a sack lunch, our make shift hiking gear and a national forest to conquer.


We knew we didn't have much time, and even though my mom agreed to come "relieve" Sara Jo from her duties, we wanted to be home at a reasonable hour. We chose three short hikes that had "magnificent" views rather than one long hike.   So off to Taft point we went. A short, quick 1.1 mile jaunt to a few of half dome.


The view was amazing.


Jake and Half Dome. We which will be our next hike. 
I didn't want to wait, so I conquered half dome that day.

Even though the view from the top of sentential dome was amazing, we didn't feel like we really "hiked". We had to reevaluate where we wanted to go. And of course, we chose to road less traveled. 

Which is always the right choice in my book.


I didn't know where we were going. I just was kind of along for the ride, trusting that Jake had (hopefully) and purpose for our wandering into the wild. I kept asking, "Do you know where you are going?". He would reply "yes". Then 20 minutes later I would ask again, "Ummm.. where are we?" Jake would reply, " I don't know babe that's the beauty of it".


We ended up here, at Taft point. Or... was it Truman point? I can't remember. But it was named after a President. and it was beautiful. This picture does no justice, and my camera was out of memory. But these are called Fissures. I kept called them (pardon my colorful language for some of you readers) anal fissures which is a lesion crack or tear in (at least in this case) land. the drop looked like thousands and thousands and thousands of feet.


We had a great time, and ended up hiking over 5 miles which was perfect for a half day trip.

Thursday, July 1, 2010

Three years ago today...

Three years ago today I married...

A little boy I met in the bathtub...

And Life...
 


Hasn't been the same...

Since..
 

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